TO THE BRIDE


You’ve been dreaming, planning, Pinterest-ing, and maybe even slightly obsessing (it’s okay, we all do it). Now your big day is almost here -- and with all eyes on you, you want to look and feel like the absolute goddess you are. But before you float down the aisle and into newlywed bliss, let’s chat about some unstated (but oh-so-important) bride prep tips. These aren’t the usual “get your nails done” or “say yes to the dress” notes -- we’re talking next-level pro tips for glowing, grounded, and genuinely you vibes on your wedding day.


1. No New Beauty Experiments Within One Week (We’re Looking at You, TikTok Hacks)

You do not want to find out you’re allergic to a new serum, peel, or trendy facial the week before your wedding. Stick to what your skin knows and loves. No new skincare, makeup, hair dye, or wild waxing ventures. Let’s save the adventures for the honeymoon, shall we?


2. Get a Mani and a Pedi (and Don’t Forget the Cuticles)

Yes, your hands will be photographed a lot. Rings, bouquet, vows -- you name it. Go for clean, timeless nails that make you feel confident. Tip: Choose a polish that won't show chips too easily. Neutral, soft tones are classic -- but hey, if bold red is your thing? Own it, queen.


3. Hydrate Like You’re Training for a Marathon

Your skin, your energy, and your sanity all depend on it. Drink water in the days leading up to the wedding (not just the morning of), and keep sipping throughout the day. Bonus: you’ll glow from the inside out.


4. Eat (Yes, Really Eat)

Skipping food because of nerves or wanting to “feel light” in your dress is a fast track to dizzy spells and hanger. Eat something nourishing on the morning of your wedding -- and don’t forget snacks! Granola bars, fruit, a protein shake, whatever works. Your body (and your photos) will thank you.


5. Break in Those Gorgeous Shoes

Wedding shoes are fabulous -- until you’re limping by cocktail hour. Wear them around the house (socks help stretch them out), and have blister bandaids in your emergency kit just in case. Bonus tip: Pack a backup pair of flats or stylish sandals for dancing later.


6. Keep That Dress Looking Flawless

Have someone assigned to steam/press your gown the day before (or morning of). Also, keep it hung up properly, out of direct sunlight, and far from food or wine. Trust no one near it with a coffee in hand!


7. Prepare a Bridal Details Kit for Flat-Lay Magic

Your photographer will love you for this. Here’s what to include:

  • Perfume;
  • Shoes;
  • Jewelry (earrings, rings, etc.);
  • Hair accessories;
  • Invitation suite (envelope + RSVP card, too!);
  • Something borrowed, blue, or meaningful;
  • A love note or gift from your groom (if applicable!);
  • Your wedding day Lingerie;
  • Bonus: Your vow book, lipstick, or even a pretty hanger for your dress.


8. Schedule Emotional Buffer Time

The day will move fast. Build in small quiet moments -- maybe after your makeup is done, or right before putting on your dress -- to breathe, reflect, and take it all in. Consider writing a letter to yourself or reading one from your partner to center yourself emotionally.


9. Don’t Wing Your Vows Last Minute

If you’re writing your own vows, please don’t wait until the morning of. Give yourself a few days to reflect, write, and edit. And maybe have tissues on hand when you do finally read them.


10. Assign a “Stuff” Person (Because You Can’t Hold Everything)

Designate a bridesmaid or planner to handle your lipstick, tissues, phone, and touch-up kit.

You don’t need to worry about where your clutch is -- your job is to be fully present.


11. Embrace the Emotions

If you cry, cry. If you laugh, laugh. If you’re overwhelmed in the best way, lean in. Don’t worry about how your “cry face” looks -- those photos, those moments, those feelings are what make your wedding so real and memorable.


12. Connect with Your Guests During the Aisle Walk

As you walk down the aisle, take a moment to make eye contact with your family and friends.

Let yourself feel the love that’s surrounding you. Then, when you see your groom -- lock eyes, and let the rest of the world fade away.


13. Whisper Something Beautiful When You Reach Him

Just like we told the groom -- this moment is yours too. Take his hands and whisper a soft, simple “I love you,” or “We made it,” or “You look so handsome.” That private exchange in the midst of such a big moment? Magic.


14. Empty Pockets, Fluff the Train

No phones, lip gloss, or anything bulky in your dress or veil. Keep everything off your body so your silhouette remains flawless. Designate someone to “train patrol” so your dress stays picture-perfect for every photo opp.


15. Soak. It. All. In.

The laughs. The tiny moments. The scent of your bouquet. The music playing as you step into forever. This is your moment. Your love story. Your wedding. Let go of the stress, and trust in the joy you created.


Bonus Tip: Be Authentically YOU

Whether you're glam, boho, minimalist, romantic, or a barefoot-on-the-beach bride -- honour who you are. Your confidence and authenticity will shine brighter than any dress, any hairdo, any filter.


Your wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime moment, but it’s not about perfection -- it’s about presence. These tips aren’t about adding more pressure, but rather helping you feel prepared so that on your big day, all that’s left is to feel the love and dance the night away (blister-free, of course). Now go be the radiant, calm, hydrated, joy-filled bride you were always meant to be!