A GRACEFUL GUIDE FOR NEWLYWEDS
In today’s modern love stories, not every couple chooses to take on a shared last name -- and that’s absolutely beautiful. But for those who do decide to carry one name forward, the process of legally changing it comes with its fair share of to-dos. To help you transition with ease (and elegance), here’s your go-to checklist for updating your identity:
First Things First
☐ Marriage Certificate (a certified copy from your province or territory -- not just the license you signed on your wedding day);
☐ Photo Identification (your existing ID -- this will be required at every update step);
Legal Identity Documents
☐ Social Insurance Number (SIN) – Update with Service Canada;
☐ Driver’s Licence and Vehicle Registration – Provincial registry (ServiceOntario, Service Alberta, etc.);
☐ Health Card – Provincial health agency (e.g., OHIP, AHCIP, AHS);
☐ Passport – Submit application with proof of name change;
☐ Voter Registration – Elections Canada;
Financial Institutions
☐ Bank Accounts;
☐ Credit Cards;
☐ Loan Providers – Mortgage, car loans, student loans, etc.;
☐ Investment Accounts – RRSP, TFSA, mutual funds;
☐ Employer Payroll & Work Benefits;
☐ Canada Revenue Agency (CRA);
Insurance & Benefits
☐ Health Insurance (Provincial & Private);
☐ Life Insurance;
☐ Home and Auto Insurance;
☐ Employer/Group Insurance Plans;
Home & Utilities
☐ Mortgage or Lease Agreements;
☐ Property Title (if applicable);
☐ Utility Accounts – Hydro, gas, internet, cell phone, etc.;
☐ Auto-Pay & Subscription Services – Review account names and billing;
Travel & Rewards
☐ Frequent Flyer Accounts;
☐ Hotel Loyalty Programs;
☐ Upcoming Travel Bookings – Ensure tickets reflect your new name;
☐ Global Entry/NEXUS Card (if applicable);
Legal Documents
☐ Will & Living Will;
☐ Power of Attorney;
☐ Life Directives;
Personal Identity
☐ Email Address & Signature;
☐ Voicemail Greeting;
☐ Work & Personal Profiles (Zoom, Slack, etc.);
Social Media & Online Accounts
☐ Facebook;
☐ Instagram;
☐ LinkedIn;
☐ Pinterest, TikTok, X (Twitter), etc.;
☐ Online Shopping Accounts – Amazon, Etsy, etc.;
☐ Streaming Services – Netflix, Spotify, etc.;
☐ Magazine or Subscription Boxes;
Bonus Tips
☐ Order Extra Certified Copies of Your Marriage Certificate -- Many updates require originals;
☐ Keep a Folder with photocopies of everything you’ve submitted or changed;
☐ Make a Master List of Accounts -- This helps you track which ones you’ve updated.
Changing your name is a personal choice -- and if it’s the right one for you, I hope this checklist makes the process feel a little less daunting and a lot more graceful! You’re not just changing a name -- you’re honouring a new chapter in your love story.